Secret Confessions

Hello I am a 27 year old who just had an amazing relationship with a student i met in my home town. Well I moved to another country and after 6 months she will finish her school and we will be together again.

Now heres the problem . I am addicted to sex and so is she.. We are both modern attractive people and can get whoever we want.

But… We decided to stay together so that means no cheating on each other..
Well when we were together we`ve made love 2-3 times a day for 6 months not excluding periods.. :-P I love it and she loves it.. Now 1 month of loneliness has passed and we are both going crazy with the fact that we dont want to cheat on each other but have an irresistable urge to have sex…

I have the opportunity now to cheat on her and i know she will never find out.. Do i have the right to cheat on her if i know she will also do the same ??? I mean we really love each other but we are both seriously addicted to sex…. What shall we do ??
I am afraid bringup the issue of leaving each other free for the 5 months left will result in me or her falling in love with somebody else … I really want to marry her and she really loves me..

Girls please tell me… Would you cheat on me if you were in her situation… I really need some re-assuring here.. I dont want to be the only one sticking to the deal… If we both dont cheat on each other its okay… i will wait for her.. but i know she loves sex so much she wont be able to stay faithful…. Help me make up my mind please??

I’ve been very close with a friend of mine for over a decade, now. It’s actually the epitome of what a “best friendship” is. Because of that, when he started dating this girl, I expressed my reservations but was very supportive of him in every way. Eventually, they got married and I’ve always been very sweet to her and never express anything to either of them.

But I can’t deny the truth that everything about her bothers me more and more. From the irrational behaviour and beliefs, to the general white-trashy attitude, to the idiotic certitude in the face of overwhelming evidence to contrary positions.

I don’t know what to do.

Wow.
What a convenient site.
Well, I’ve just started a year at a new school, and as usual I’m having no issues whatsoever making friends. But, my two best friends who I trust the most are at a different school. I haven’t seen them in a while, and I’m terrified of losing them.
I do have a really close friend at my new school, but I don’t feel that she’s the sort of person I’d tell important things…
So, to replace the contact I usually have with my best friends, I’ve begun writing on sites like Livejournal, Mibba, Quizilla etc. and building ‘no-strings-attached’ friendships with people I can relate to. I don’t know if this is a good thing or not, but I really don’t need any lectures on ‘internet safety’ or ‘the dangers of online predators’. Spare me the repetition.
I’m pretty sure it’s better than keeping everything bottled up, I guess. My parents are thinking of sending me to see a therapist, since I’ve been depressed. They recently found out I’ve been taking pain medication when I didn’t need it and they think it’s ‘unhealthy’ the amount of time I spend alone in my room.

I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life, and I was the one to break it off. Not because it ‘wasn’t working’ or anything like that. I just felt like there was something more I was missing.
I met this guy about 5 months back. I think we’ve hung out maybe… six times? He seems completely perfect, and I can’t seem to get him out of my head. We have the same interests, laugh at the same bad jokes, etc etc.
But, on the other hand, I have a really sweet friend who is apparently completely in love with me. I don’t like him ‘like that’ but I feel pressured to, just because everybody keeps asking ‘are you guys dating yet?’ and such. I mean, he sent me roses on Valentine’s day. I can still only think of him as a friend.

I still love my ex but I just can’t get back to him. The reason why we broke-up is that he keeps on insisting to have sex with me and I don’t want it. Not because I don’t love him but I feel like he just want my body. I gave him my time, I lied to my parents and I even escape from work just to be with him. Now, his texting me…and I always into temptations of replying him but I force myself not to. What should I do??? My parents and friends don’t like him and we had a different religion. Please…help me

My dear friend of many years, who I’ve known over the internet, is coming to visit me for the first time next week. Last night we had phone sex; the anticipation is too much. I recently got out of a really bad relationship of five years. I feel like his coming down to meet me after all these years is going to determine whether I really feel what I feel for him or not, or if it’s just a fantasy. I want him. But I don’t want to ruin the friendship or seem like I’m on the rebound. I’m scared that others will think I’m wanting to do this way too soon. I’ve kept in contact with him throughout my previous relationship. I want him. Badly. But I am so scared.

I just love my girlfriend, but everyday i’m afraid that she cheats on me.. I feel obsessed with such negative thoughts.. Sometimes i feel that the fact that i’m not a man will make her feel some thing missing.. But now its been like more than a year we’ve together, and i say that she could have had ample time to realise it..
I just love her… she makes me feel so good..

I fell in love with my best friend and she fell for me, too.
We were together for a month and then we broke up.
The months spent apart were the worst of my life.
We’d get into bitter fights, I’d contemplate suicide, I’d slice my wrists, I’d dream about her.
Just recently, we got back together.
That’s all I’ve wanted.
I don’t think she really knows how much she means.
She is the core of my life.
Without her, all is lost.
I would do anything, anything for her.
My love is forever and unconditional.

There’s so much I want to say to her.
I can listen to The Used again…

I sometimes fantasize about being raped so that someone will save me and fall in love with me.

im 29 single, i have no boyfriend but i fall in love with a married guy now. he’s in Saudi Arabia now and im here in Phil.we talk everyday online, and i spend almost 5hours to have chat with him. I told him not to fall in love with me, but he always exist that his heart belongs to me. he has 3 kids and also living here in Philippines,based on him his wife living with his kids. i dont know what could i do, i want to get marry but how? he doensnt mention anything about annualment. but i feel to myself that i loved this guy…i really misses him a lot. im thinking of him almost every seconds in my life..i feel guilt coz i know i did a mortal sin. (to love to a married man is not good)

I am very conservative person. I fall in love at the age of 22. Now I am 24+ doing MBA. Out relationship is about for 2 years. She is the one and only love in my life. I love her more than anything and I also love my family very much. But I cannot choose one. My family is not accepting me to marry her for many reasons which and I cannot blame them for that as they are doing what they should do-I know! I have protested them for more than a years but I failed to make them accept her. Now why I am confused to decide whether to keep relation with her or not are: She is very dominative, less carrying and does anything she wish when she is angry. She has little respect to my family which I cannot stand. She is extrovert in nature. And many more of her nature I do not like. Knowing these things she insists of doing all the things. If I try to control her, she goes more out of control. I am still love her but I am now confused “Can I be happy with her? Should I take the risk of loosing my family for her? If I break up with her now, will I regreat at future for loosing my love? What would happen to me if I make a choice?”
I am confused! I am too young about life. Please people who knows life better, advise me!!!!!!!!!!

Yesterday, I overdosed on vitamins and almost killed myself.
and the scariest thing: I’m not glad to be alive.

I used to say that ’suicide is not the answer’ but after every thing that’s happened over the past year… I’m not so sure anymore. Yeah, I’m terrified of dying but it just seems like the only opition left.

No one knows about this except for my best friend and she lives in a different country.

I HATE MY LIFE LAST YEAR I HAD A PROBLEM AT SCHOOL AND NOW ALL MY FRIEND BELIEVE THAT I WAS THE GUILTY OF ALL AND THEY DISCLAIM THEY DON’T CARE IF I AM A HUMAN WITH FEELINGS I WANT TO BE PART OG MY PROM AND TO TAKE PART OF IT!! I JAHETE MY FRIENDS AND HATE MY LIFE!!

I love a married guy and he loves me back and at the same time i’m engaged to a guy i really like but he doesnt get me and understand me like the other one…

He’s a seaman. And everytime he’s about to go, he’s mean-tempered and always angry. What’s worst is, he’s always angry with me. He always tells that I’m a liar, that I’m a spoiled brat, etc. Also, I’m jealous of my brother. I look like a damn frog because my eyes are still swollen because of crying. Why? Because my father shouted at me even though I didn’t do anything. And you know what? My whole family blamed me. I fckin’ hate them! I fckin’ hate them!!!!